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I’ve finally completed a review of Steve Arterburn & Fred Stoeker’s book, Every Man’s Battle.  This book has been out for a while; it was first published in 2000, with a study guide coming in 2002. Since that time, various editions have been put out by Multnomah. This is a re-release from WaterBrook, a subdivision of Multnomah/Random House that has the study guide included with the book.

I find that this book hits a nerve with men:the temptation and lure of sexual sin. How can I battle against such a strong foe? How can I be free from the bondage to this sin? It’s very relevant, given the number of men within the church who struggle with some type of sexual addiction, but especially that to pornography.

While the books does have its good points and parts, I think it really misses the mark. “Bouncing the eyes” is the main solution the authors have to offer–in other words, when you see something suggestive that tempts you, bounce your eyes somewhere else. Not bad, but with the all-pervasive sphere of our visual culture, I’m just not sure this is going to work at all. Besides, I had an Old Testament prof in college who told of how the Pharisees would do this, literally, whenever they saw a woman, suggestively clothed or not. They would literally turn toward a wall (he would jokingly add that was why so many of them had such large noses, from breaking them by running into walls all the time). What this becomes is just another law that slays us.

The authors talk about the cross only minimally and when they do, they seem to assume that the reader is familiar with the cross, Christ’s work upon the cross on your behalf and the power it brings to bear upon your life in Christ. I think this is a dangerous assumption.

You can hear more details about my review by viewing the video book review I’ve just posted over at Random Thoughts From a Cluttered Mind.

Go easy on me; this is my first video review!

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  • Gregbejian

    You have hit the nail on the head with your review. I was a slave to pornography and bisexuality and all while I was married with two children. I had confessed my porn problem to my wife but not my physical adultery with men. She was listening to a radio program that featured Mr. Arteburn and I went to a meeting in Colorado and learned how to bounce my eyes. This didn’t last of course and after spending over $2500.00 between seminar fees and airline tickets I had no heart change. I found out about a ministry in Ky called Pure Life Ministries and went there leaving my family for 7months. I found Gods mercy thru Jesus and the preaching of the cross and after almost 7yrs I’ve been porn free ,remarried as my wife left me after a 22 yr of marriage and Jesus has made all things new. A great read is At The Alter of Sexual Idolotry by Steve Gallagher the founder of Pure Life. I would love to talk with you further as I love your awareness to the need for the preaching of the cross. Would love to

    • Greg Bejian

      I would love to share more of what the Lord has done in restoring not only a marriage and a new daughter, but also how our Lord is birthing a ministry through my wife and I called Heart of Purity Evangelism Ministry or HOPE for short. It’s because of the healing power of the risen Savior and not man made psyco babble and tricks that I have been set free from porn and bisexuality.
      thank you
      Greg Bejian
      heartofpurityevangelism@gmail.com
      518-414-0311